Dr.John
R. Ross Jr., known as Bob to all who knew him, was born
in Dannemora, New York on Oct. 14, 1913 to the late
Dr. John R. Ross Sr. and Martha (MacConnell) Ross.
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Bob graduated from Dartmouth College in 1935 and continued
to study two years at Dartmouth Medical School before
obtaining his Doctor of Medicine degree from Columbia
University. During WWII Bob served as a Medical Officer
for the 39th Bomb Group, flying on B-29 missions in
the Pacific.
After the war he moved to Syracuse, New York where he
and wife Marion raised their two children, Bonnie and
Robert. Bob and Marion were married until her passing
in 1965. Bob established a private practice in
child psychiatry. He later joined the staff of the State
University of New York’s Upstate Medical Center,
where he was a professor of psychiatry.
In 1962 Bob was appointed director of the Fairmont Children’s
Center, a residential home in a rural setting outside
of Syracuse. Starting up a program to help emotionally
disturbed blind children, the facility never had more
than twenty or so children, the purpose being to give
as much individual attention to each resident as possible.
Bob led the staff in innovative programs with a special
emphasis on music, drama, educational outings and a
great amount of time outdoors, under which the children
flourished.
In 1975 Bob became Director of Rutland Mental Health
Services in Rutland, Vermont. He and his wife Ruth made
their home in Chittenden. He retired in 1983 but continued
to be very active in the Rutland area, particularly
in his own community.
In Chittenden, Bob helped establish the small Chittenden
Public Library in the Barstow Memorial School and served
as chair of the library board. He was a lay leader and
became a beloved elder in the Church of the Wildwood,
(Methodist affiliation). He and his wife Ruth hosted
a discussion group in their house every week, which
focused on increased self-awareness and peace. Over
the years, they also opened their home to families or
single people in transition, who needed a place to live
before moving on with their lives.
In the early eighties, Bob became involved in Habitat
for Humanity. He and Ruth co-chaired the Family Selection
and Nurture Committee until Bob became President of
the Board of the Rutland Regional Habitat for Humanity.
Also, for many, many years, he and Ruth traveled to
the Weston Priory in Weston, Vermont once a week, where
they prepared the main meal of the day, then stayed
to eat with the Brothers, who became very special to
them.
Bob loved the outdoors and was an active sportsman.
He also, at different times in his life, sailed his
own boat, rode his own motorcycle and learned to fly
an airplane. His favorite spectator sport was high school
football and Bob could be found on many a Saturday morning,
attending games in the little towns near Rutland. In
his later years he took to gardening with Ruth at their
home in Chittenden. Besides sports, Bob loved the arts
and went to innumerable concerts, plays, festivals,
art fairs and museums, taking advantage of the cultural
climate of Vermont. He also attended many events at
his alma mater, Dartmouth in Hanover, NH.
Besides his wife Ruth, Bob leaves behind a son, John
R. Ross III and his wife Christine, of Carlsbad, CA;
a daughter, Anne K. Ross and her partner James Totin,
of Norwich, VT, both of whom have tended to Bob and
Ruth with love and devotion before and since their move
from Chittenden; a stepson, Neil Chaput and his wife
Jeanne of Missoula, MT; two stepdaughters, Susan Theriault
and her husband Philip of Plainville, CT; Carol Hart
and her husband Charles of Carpinteria, CA; a son-in-law,
Robert Casper of Shrewsbury, NJ; a stepdaughter-in-law
Barbara Reinhold of Easthampton, MA; two grandsons,
Jeffrey and Scott Casper; a granddaughter Kristy Ross
(?); four step-grandchildren, Molly, David and Paul
Theriault and Forest Chaput; two great grandsons, other
extended family members and many, many friends near
and far.
A memorial service will be held on Friday, March 16th
at 11:00 a.m. |