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Mathers Letter
Part III

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It is very hard for me to yet realize this has actually happened - and after the "big job" is done. Dendy was part of my life out here that I cannot explain - and I cannot get him out of my mind. I'll always remember as he was out here - he was always happy-go-lucky - full of enthusiasm - and for me, it was a new but deep friendship that I'll always cherish. Be proud of him - & try to be brave in his memory of real courage. They don't come any better - or braver - he was a dear friend - & a man.

Dendy was a good pilot too - they made the flight to Korea & back that Sunday - for a "show of airpower" - 18 hrs non-stop. Back at North Field that nite, Dendy made the landing - his first at nite - and they told me it was perfect.

I think that you should know that his papers for 2nd Lt came thru the morning he left - he was to be sworn in that day.

I know that there is no such thing as consolation for you - but want to say this, in my deep sympathy & small share in your suffering: After 13 missions over Japan, Dendy had a real - more than average - personal share in the victory that is ours, the living. And it is now up to us not to waste it. At least too, he lived to see the fruits of his courage - the end of the war.

Although it is impossible to seek an explanation of why this happened now & to Dendy - I want you to know that I will never believe in "fate" in any of its forms - & that this accident was just that - an accident, no more - yes that probably could have been prevented, but wasn't. It was perhaps a chance in a hundred - but the wrong one out of 99 others - which could have more easily happened when I flew over Rota that day but didn't.

But it does make me believe more firmly something that a great poet once wrote - that "the good go first, the bad linger on to plague us" I guess that's why it didn't happen to No. 33 over Rota that day. Of all the friends that I have lost in the war - is my best friends that are gone.

I'll be back in the states as early as the middle of Nov but not later than Xmas I believe, & if there is any more of my knowledge of the accident that you will want me to share with you then - please ask me.

My heart breaks for you - & somehow I feel strangely close to you in sharing at least a small share of your great loss. So if there is ever anything that I can do - or can be to you - please let me - .

With love & sympathy,
Bob


Note:This letter is courtesy of Suzanne (Sadler) Stone, sister of Hammond Sadler you may email her at: LStone500@aol.com

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Source: Suzanne Stone