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                        is very hard for me to yet realize this has actually happened 
                        - and after the "big job" is done. Dendy was part of my 
                        life out here that I cannot explain - and I cannot get 
                        him out of my mind. I'll always remember as he was out 
                        here - he was always happy-go-lucky - full of enthusiasm 
                        - and for me, it was a new but deep friendship that I'll 
                        always cherish. Be proud of him - & try to be brave in 
                        his memory of real courage. They don't come any better 
                        - or braver - he was a dear friend - & a man. Dendy 
                        was a good pilot too - they made the flight to Korea & 
                        back that Sunday - for a "show of airpower" - 18 hrs non-stop. 
                        Back at North Field that nite, Dendy made the landing 
                        - his first at nite - and they told me it was perfect. I 
                        think that you should know that his papers for 2nd Lt 
                        came thru the morning he left - he was to be sworn in 
                        that day. I 
                        know that there is no such thing as consolation for you 
                        - but want to say this, in my deep sympathy & small share 
                        in your suffering: After 13 missions over Japan, Dendy 
                        had a real - more than average - personal share in the 
                        victory that is ours, the living. And it is now up to 
                        us not to waste it. At least too, he lived to see the 
                        fruits of his courage - the end of the war. Although 
                        it is impossible to seek an explanation of why this happened 
                        now & to Dendy - I want you to know that I will never 
                        believe in "fate" in any of its forms - & that this accident 
                        was just that - an accident, no more - yes that probably 
                        could have been prevented, but wasn't. It was perhaps 
                        a chance in a hundred - but the wrong one out of 99 others 
                        - which could have more easily happened when I flew over 
                        Rota that day but didn't. But 
                        it does make me believe more firmly something that a great 
                        poet once wrote - that "the good go first, the bad linger 
                        on to plague us" I guess that's why it didn't happen to 
                        No. 33 over Rota that day. Of all the friends that I have 
                        lost in the war - is my best friends that are gone. I'll 
                        be back in the states as early as the middle of Nov but 
                        not later than Xmas I believe, & if there is any more 
                        of my knowledge of the accident that you will want me 
                        to share with you then - please ask me. My 
                        heart breaks for you - & somehow I feel strangely close 
                        to you in sharing at least a small share of your great 
                        loss. So if there is ever anything that I can do - or 
                        can be to you - please let me - . With 
                        love & sympathy,Bob
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